If her account of the situation is 100% correct I'm mostly amazed that this "DB" went racist at the end. Like, "Hmm, the sexual stuff isn't winning her over. Only the uniting element of
racist humor can save this awkwardness!"
What gets me is the husband. I know the wife stated she didn't need/want her husband to save/rescue her, but if that was my wife and someone that I didn't know (wasn't a close friend) was talking that shit to her, I would have casually stood up, walked to the stage and started pounding his ass into pulp fiction.
How the husband just sat there for this I will never know.
Good question.
Probably didn't want to dip his toe into her world in fear of messing up her career. Or maybe he thought they knew each other and they were just goofing around. Not realizing what really happened till after the con. Of course, I'm guessing, I know neither person.